The headline of the story on page five of Wednesdays
Guardian was Teen guilty of killing cop. And
on page eight of the same issue, the headline read Teen
to face trial for murder.
Violent crime being committed by young people is nothing
new and, being part of the general population, they are
not insulated from the factors that would cause someone
to run afoul of the laws which set the standard for civil
existence.
But as a parent I am wondering if we as adults do not,
individually, feel the pain when we see young, innocent
looking boys and girls being hauled before the courts
on some kind of criminal charge.
Do we feel a sense of outrage, pity or shame when we see
these lost souls being sent to correctional facilities?
As a parent I feel for those children who, for whatever
reasonslack of a proper family life background or
upbringing, single parenting, hanging out with the wrong
crowd, or naturally being badend up
on the wrong side of the law.
Are we by our own anti-social, criminal, deviant attitude
and actions letting down the young ones?
Arent we sending them very mixed and confused signals
by our lack of respect for institutions and respect for
basic fundamentals?
Are they emulatingand sometimes exceeding in its
brutalitythe evil deeds of the adults?
Thank God none of my children has taken that path but
I want you to tell me that if you dont think any
one of these children could be yours?
Would you feel that you are to be blamed for failing your
child if you did not inculcate the right values in them?
The wife of Police Constable Kierna Parke couldnt
have said it better after the jury on Tuesday found Kerron
Joseph,guilty of fatally shooting her husband in December
2002. At the time he committed the offence he was just
16 years old.
Mrs Parke said she was sad that two lives were overher
husbands and now Josephs.
Dont you feel emotionally upset that a young man
has had his life effectively ended by that indiscriminate
act? How would you feel if that was your child? What was
he thinking about when he fired that fatal bullet?
Really, I want to know what would you have done if that
was your child?
For me that is so emotionally painful. I dont know
about you but I cannot think how I as a father could survive
any of my children finding themselves in that heart-wrenching
situation. I think I would die of grief.
Maybe I am a softie but I am very partial to children
and I just cannot fathom how young people, teens most
of all, can pick up a weapon and maim or kill another
human being.
Some people blame broken homes for causing many young
people to drift into a life of crime. While that may have
some merit I do not completely buy it because I, like
so many other adults, did not have the luxury of being
brought up by my parents.
That did not cause me to abandon all the good virtues
my adopted mother imparted to her charges and today I
can say that she did an excellent job, given the economic
circumstances under which we grew up in San Juan.
Today when I look at the behaviour of young children,
on the way to and from school particularly, I am saddened
over their conduct, which in some instances is downright
lewd.
Sometimes I see them fighting. And do I dare intervene
to point out to them the error of their ways?
It hurts me knowing I dare not do anything of the sort
for fear of their verbal or physical wrath.
I often wonder whether these children live with their
parents or any adults at all.
You see I am of the firm belief that parents are largely
to be held responsible for the delinquent behaviour of
their charges.
Setting the right example is of paramount importance.
If your child is showing signs of going down the wrong
road, instead of giving up on them, as a parent you have
to let them know in a most compassionate way the long-term
consequences of their defiant
actions today.
On the subject of not giving up, today I am appealing
to the Government to give young offenders the opportunity
to rehabilitate themselves by throwing their full support
behind Vision On A Mission.
This vibrant group, led by the equally dynamic Wayne Chance,
has been in the vanguard of changing around the lives
of ex-convicts with little support from the State or the
business sector.
On serving his eight-year term, Wayne, no doubt having
learned his lesson behind bars, did not allow real obstacles
to divert him from being focused on assisting ex-prisoners.
To date he has spent some $61,000 on rentals, stipends
for a small staff and other recurrent expenses.
In spite of the lack of funds, Wayne recently rented a
home in Champs Fleurs where freed people can find hope
and sustenance, if only for a short time, before venturing
out on their own.
Although refusing it to call the facility a half-way home
because it is reminiscent of a prison-like connotation,
Wayne needs all the help he can get at this time.
He can be contacted at 678-4860 or 628-9960.
I paid a visit to the intransit shelter, as Wayne would
prefer it to be known, and I was deeply moved by the stories
of these young men who want to be given a second chance
at being good citizens.
Please do not let them down.