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Balance or balderdash?

It’s often said the world has to be the way it is: there must be good and bad so there can be balance.

Bullocks, that! The things required to make balance are not good and bad, but light and dark —which, contrary to what so many mistakenly think, is not the same as good and bad.

Still, even if, let’s say, that it was good and bad needed to make balance, we must see there is no balance. Good and bad would have to be balanced for there to be balance, and there is no balance between good and bad.

Suffering outweighs joy.

No one who is suffering under bad things talks of the need for bad in the world; only those who want to do bad to others.

Take the Marquis de Sade, whom many a twit without an original thought in their temple likes to call a father of free-thinking and free-living, because he was a libertine and worse besides.

Sure the Marquis espoused doing exactly as one feels and being rid of inhibitions, blah, blah, blah. But he meant that only for the rich, the elite, the high-born, the bourgeoisie. He meant they could do anything they wanted to the wretched poor, not the other way around.

See one way would work for him and his class mates. The other would have worked against them.

So people in general don’t mind bad things happening, bad things being done... just as long as it’s to somebody else.

Most of us do not seek to suffer unless we’re on a fundamentalist path. Most of us see those who seek out suffering as odd, deviant, a bit off their rockers.

The majority of us, given full selection between the two, would choose joy over suffering any day; at least for ourselves. For others we may choose something else.

And that right there, folks, explains the “mystery” of “Why is there so much suffering in the world?” The reason is man’s inhumanity to man.

This remains particularly perplexing, however, when we consider evidence to the opposite: the amazing acts of kindness and selflessness human beings display to loved ones and total strangers on a daily basis.

It means we can do good. So why do we do bad? And since we do bad, why do we ever bother to do good?

Perhaps we just all want to be in the press.

Consider all the asinine so-called reality TV shows, and call-in radio programmes, in which people will do or have the most absurd, degrading things done to or said to them merely to get seen by a bunch of people.

Maybe mass media has so suffused the senses—term used loosely—of the masses they’ve been brainwashed into wanting to do anything to become a story.

So they kill. They rape. They beat and bash and bawl. They set fire to whole buildings or little kittens they’ve stolen off old ladies.

They blow up factories, cars, school buses. They bomb entire cities full of people. They kill homos, abortionists, coloured people, their sisters and wives, in God’s name I might add. They steal from the rich and give to the...wait, no, that’s not what they do; they steal from the poor and give to the rich.

There are people who love and give and help and care. But their stories seldom make the news.

And while the public boohoos at the media for its “bad news” bent, the public itself tends not to buy periodicals that take the positive approach.

Hypocrisy, as ever, is the order of the day.

Or, perhaps, it’s just confusion.

We often get confused over the question of good and bad, even right and wrong (or could be we just convinced ourselves we were confused and we actually knew which one to choose all along.)

Perhaps if we allow our actions towards others to be motivated by the desire to spread of joy rather than suffering, we’d fare better at the “do no harm” thing.

“Are you sure?” we could ask ourselves. “Are you sure you will not bring woe in the long-run by committing this act?”

I think that will help us to better come good.

Be BREWing again Sunday!

 

 

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